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13.1.08

Ist Monogamie die Ursache allen Übels?

Mehrere Autoren und Autorinnen sehen in der vertraglich geregelten Zweisamkeit (in der Beziehung, im Job, ...) die Ursache für viele Ermüdungserscheinungen in unserer Gesellschaft. In Dave Pollards Blog werden z.B. Laura Kipnis' und Glen Partons Thesen vorgestellt:

Laura Kipnis, despite the title of of her 200-page "polemic", is not Against Love. Rather, she's against the trappings, the rules, the rituals that our culture imposes on love relationships. She goes even further -- she sees marriage, the institution, as every bit as repressive, suffocating and unnatural as our mind-numbing employment in modern hierarchical organizations, and draws strong parallels between the slavery of the workplace and the slavery of the matrimonial home. [...] it's very similar to the argument that Glenn Parton made in his essay posted first on these pages last year entitled "Love Politics". Glenn's argument is that we have become so emotionally numbed by our twin bondage to job and marriage that it has made our hearts cold and hard, uncaring of the plight of our planet and of others, and that this is a direct cause of the destruction of our world. "If I'm miserable, why should I care about anyone else?" Dare to love more than one person, he suggests, and the shackles of this self-imposed imprisonment are broken, and the inrush of emotion will shock us into awareness of, and eagerness to heal, the massive emotional and physical illness of our entire planet.

Links:
>> how to save the world: against love
>> how to save the world: A Case Against Monogamy

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